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The big repercussion for me of paying for gay sex in Nigeria

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One or two days after I paid someone I met on Grindr for sex , a man who happens to be in my top 10 favorite people met on Grindr so far told me via WhatsApp that we can't be friends anymore. Sola and I had been so compatible that he might have been my first boyfriend ever if he had not been due to get married (to a woman) in less than a year from the time we started dating. Much to his heartbreak at the time, I stopped our relationship from counting down the romantic path, not seeing the point in going into something that had a very obvious and appalling expiration date; asides also having more  expectations - at the time - from a boyfriend than he was meeting. Nonetheless, our friendship survived that period and we kept meeting for weekend hangouts frequently where neither of us wanted to leave the other's company, up until he had to relocate from Nigeria to Asia where he then got married shortly after. ----------------------------------------- Sola had visited Nig