Day 27 of my second go at the NoFap challenge

By the end of today, I would have abstained from jerking myself off to pornographic pictures/videos (or other forms of erotica) for 27 days straight. Yes! Being that this is something I used to do routinely, more or less every day, it's no mean feat. This Friday, I would finally be free from the cage in which I have willfully put myself. Whether I get out of it or not is a story for the next post.

I can't talk about my success, of course, without mentioning my mysterious NoFap buddy who was actually the catalyst for this whole thing. Yes, mysterious as in I don't know the basic things about him. Not his name, where he lives, what he does and definitely not what he looks like. Yet, we've supported each other to stay on track to achieve our mutual goal of self-restraint for the past 27 days.

You know, sometimes I think I had it a little easier than my NoFap buddy. Because while I committed to NoFap at the beginning of the challenge (13th February 2018), he committed to No PMO. Let me explain.

With NoFap, you're free to have sexual relations with others and to achieve orgasms in that process. The only restriction being that you must not expose yourself to pornography and if you're to have an orgasm, it has to be through stimulation achieved with a partner. Fortunately, since starting the challenge, I've had the opportunity to have a couple of orgasms without breaching the rules of NoFap.

On the other hand, when you sign up for No PMO, you're essentially signing up for celibacy. You shall have no form of intentional sexual exposure/stimulation whatsoever, be it alone or with a partner. PMO means "Porn, Masturbation and Orgasm" by the way.

Peace out and see you on Friday hopefully with my victory dance.

My Victory Dance

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